Greetings, readers. I’m going to have to be careful with today’s blog entry for it deals with a friend of mine, who was a caregiver for my late Godmother. My friend suffered a great tragedy; a devastating house fire and the loss of everything she held dear. Part of her loss was her four beloved dogs. Since hearing about this, I have been greatly affected.
When I read on Facebook about my friend’s loss, I couldn’t help but wonder how I would feel if that happened to me. My apartment has so many sprinklers in it that any fire would be quickly extinguished, but still if anything were to happen to my dear kitty cat Keekee I know I would be destroyed. I’ve found myself unplugging and turning things off before I leave my apartment and making certain that nothing could catch fire. As the days have gone by, this compulsion has become a little bit less, though I am still keenly aware of it.
After I read over my friend’s Facebook posts, I typed her a private message with the usual, “If there is anything I can do, please call.” Even though my intentions are good, it seems to me to be a lame statement. How could I possibly fix anything for her? I’m not a carpenter, I can’t build her a new house, and I don’t have the money to buy her a new puppy. Actually, I think she would be offended if I did.
I’ve read the comments that people have left for her and I’m seeing tons of love and support from everybody. I’m hoping that makes her long journey back a little shorter and a little easier. To you my friend, and you know who you are, my heart goes out to you. Get a hold of me for anything you need day or night. My Godmother knew three of the dogs lost, and I know in my heart that she is caring for them right now in Heaven.
Yes, readers, your life can change in the blink of an eye. I’m sure a lot of us don’t think about that every day. In time the wounds and scars on my friend with heal and I will become less sensitive to my current anxieties.
Next week, look forward to a top ten list and possibly a From Rebecca post. Until then, have a good weekend, stay out of the snow, take care, and happy reading.